Life is not fair for any of us, but it is not the fairness we must worry about. We must worry about how we deal with the unfairness. We can decide that we will just except it, or we can decide to work with it, learn from it and move on. If we decide to except it, then we have decided that it will win and create negativity. If we decide that we will work with it, learn from it and move on, then we have decided to create positive aspects in our life and continue to grow.